Nigerian actor Uzor Arukwe has addressed the backlash surrounding his portrayal of a romantic and financially generous character in the recently released YouTube film, Love in Every Word.
The movie, which has gained massive popularity, especially among female viewers, explores themes of love, responsibility, and financial commitment in relationships. However, some male audiences have criticized its depiction of men, sparking heated social media debates.
The Controversy
Critics argue that Arukwe’s character—a loving ‘Odogwu’ who fights for and showers his woman with gifts—is unrealistic. One X user called him out, saying:
“Anambra men are not simps. Your movie is liked only by ladies who have always had the illusion of an Odogwu that’ll spend his last dime on them.”
Arukwe’s Response
The actor, however, defended his role and the movie’s message, stating:
“Taking care of your woman and spending money on her doesn’t make you a simp. It only makes you a responsible man. How else do you show love to your partner if you can’t take care of their needs from the abundance of your wealth?”
Mixed Reactions Online
His response has further fueled the debate, with many praising him for challenging societal expectations, while others insist financial provision should not define masculinity or love.
Some social media users reacted:
- “I knew that movie would trigger so many people who treat their partners badly.”
- “The movie has exposed a lot of broke, badly raised, irresponsible men.”
- “Stingy men have not had peace since this movie dropped!”
- “Odogwu has spoken! Meanwhile, others are still asking, ‘What do you bring to the table?’”
- “In the movie, Odogwu Parara wasn’t just a spender—he was a good listener, intentional, romantic, and emotionally available. If his spending triggered you, maybe open your eyes to the other things he did right!”
While Love in Every Word continues to trend, one thing is clear—the film has reignited conversations about love, money, and responsibility in relationships.
